Tools & Techniques
“Between stimulus and response there is a space.
In that space is our power to choose our response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
- Viktor E. Frankl, a neurologist, psychologist and Holocaust survivor
The Single Most Important Thing You Can Do
To Manage Your Stress: The 90:10 Rule
TRY A MENTAL REBOOT
It is helpful to have varied coping tools to help you to ground
yourself in the present moment, feeling calmer and more centered.
There are many ways to activate a mental reboot, such as...
TIPP
Temperature, Intense Exercise, Paced Breathing, and/or Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Cold Temperatures
Place something cold against your forehead, face, neck, or armpits: cold water, ice cubes, etc.
Grounding Exercises
Focus your attention on your five senses, one at a time (see, hear, touch, taste, smell)
Mindful Breathing
Deep, slow, paced breathing exercises, such as box breathing
Rhythm Regulates The Brain
Any patterned, repetitive, and rhythmic activity will be calming:
walking, singing, dancing, music, running, playing catch, paced breathing, etc.
Talk to Someone
Don't go it alone. Reach out to a trusted adult, friend, therapist, or hotline/211
Do What Works
What has helped you feel better in the past? Try out those helpful tools again.
Make a Coping Toolkit
Your toolkit can include any helpful, healthy supports and tools: index cards with helpful coping strategies, a calming playlist, essential oils, lotion, sensory tools like a stress ball or massage roller, pictures, coloring books, and people to call.